“I’m afraid I can’t explain myself, sir.
Because I am not myself, you see?”
-Alice in Wonderland
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To be clear, this is my first blog in English. So, why? Because today i’m gonna talk about something really sensitive, and it’s not a great idea to talk in Vietnamese. Well, at last, this sh*t is about women, and you know, never make women crazy.
So yesterday is The Independence Day. It’s great, people went somewhere with their friends, their family. They had good times. Me too, i had a great holiday. Here’s the problem, last night, i opened my facebook (it’s nasty), and i see something really shocked me. You know, i’ve added some really pretty girls as facebook friends, but i don’t really know who they are. I just add, and leave it. And last night, i saw a girl on facebook updated her status. It’s kinda personal, but it’s truly hurt. She has no friends, no family for the holiday, and she stayed home, she didn’t go anywhere for fun. And what makes me feel sorrow for her is in fact, she has bad relationships with guys. Because she’s very hot, so although i didn’t care about her, my friends talk about her very much. They say every time she dates with a guy, it’s only lasts 3 days. But she keeps doing that, and i just don’t know why. She keeps dating, ending relationships, and going to find someone else. It doesn’t matter that she’s a good or a bad girl. Because when you live a life like her, you’ll be hurting, no matter who you are. I feel sorry for her, it’s true, she’s a pretty girl, she be nice to people, and guys step in, and destroy her relationships. That’s how girls live and love in modern days. In some case, they’re in a relationships for nothing, they don’t really like that guy, but they still make it, because they want to be famous, they want moneys, they want something. They accept guys so quickly that they don’t realize what kind of that guy, what he want, and what he’s gonna do. Pretty girl who has a great personality, has a great heart and be nice to people, they should wait for an ideal guy.
I stopped, thinked about her, and then i moved on. I’s scrolling down my facebook, and then i see many status. I saw some girls tell their parents’re cruel because they can’t go out with friends, i saw some girls’re acting like whores. They opened their facebook, and they invited everyone, they asked everyone, like this
“It’s so boring to stay at home, can someone pick me up and have a great night with me?”
Like this
“I have a great dress but i have no one to hang out, who want to go out with me?”
And this
“Holiday, i’m staying home, it’s suck, want some friends!!!!”
Online dating’s SUPER popular right now. It’s easy as you buy a pair of shoes online. You just go online, choose the model you like, press buy, and it’s yours. Now, online dating’s love, love in 21st century. Of course, sometimes they meet great partner, but sometimes, it’s not go anywhere. It makes me sad about how fast people can forget their date online. They end their relationship, and they click delete, or block, or unfriend, and they hope they can forget their relationship with that. Honestly, me and my girl are still talking online. We never hang out. We do meet, talk, and smile together in real life, but we never make a date night. It’s still soon, we don’t want to make everything fast, and then, end fastly. That’s right, girls hang out with guys so quickly. They have dinners, they take pictures, and then, they feel boring, and they close. Everytime i meet my girl, i give her a smile, sometime, i touch her hair (badly). But that’s enough. Of course, we’ll hang out, but only when we’re sure about our relationships. These days, girls don’t love like that. They fell so fast, and when it’s end, they hurt, like the girl i talked about in the first place. They are losing their cool.